Sunday, 24 June 2012

Triumph in Prayer (Part II): Propriety in prayer

Many people today take advantage of the relationship that God our Father has graciously established with us only by the saving death and resurrection of His Son, Jesus Christ. When we pray therefore, our prayers can be shallow and without true reverential fear of God. Do we truly understand that when we are praying, we are conversing with God almighty? The maker of all things; visible and invisible? Yes, we are living in the grace which allows us to commune with God our Father, but we have to remind ourselves that we are not just talking to our ‘mate next door’.

When we truly understand more about God, who He is, how holy and mighty He is and see that in His mercy loves to hear us, His children call out to Him; we will be faced with the stark reality that we are truly unworthy sinners not deserving of such a privilege and yet have been made worthy through Christ alone so God our Father longs to hear us pray to Him, no matter how underserving we are (Jeremiah 33:3).

Knowing all of this, our faithful and blessed forefathers were indeed acquainted with the understanding of this reality and their faithful Spirit eagerly lead them into a state of humble submission before the Father. As they grew closer to God through constant prayer, fasting and the reading of the scriptures, they became more in-tune with the ‘language’ with which they were to communicate with God. And we today, can learn much about ‘pure prayer’ from their faithful life examples.

St. Isaac of Nineveh claims that reverential outward postures are conducive to one’s inward progress towards pure prayer. It is not God who needs external signs of reverence; rather, a reverential outward posture is necessary for us so that we may be trained in a pious attitude to God. 1

Continuing his description of the outward forms of prayer, Isaac then comes to prayer with outstretched hands. This posture, according to him, promotes concentration of thought and a deep feeling of compunction. Isaac also emphasizes the necessity of prayer with one’s own words; this prayer, he is convinced, leads to inner spiritual insights. The advantage of prayer with one’s own words is that it does not require one to recite certain texts from a book or to learn texts by heart or to repeat them. Some ancient saints, Isaac notes, did not know the psalms at all, yet their prayer reached God because of their humility.2


The more we start to understand who God is - Holy, sovereign, awesome, magnificent (and immeasurably more) and who we are - imperfect sinners who have been forgiven by His merciful grace, we will desire to draw nearer to Him and as a result we will humble ourselves more and physically lower ourselves in prostration as we faithfully pray to Him (Romans 12:1).

A perfect example of this type of faithful prayer is one that Christ Himself gave to us when He spoke of the prayer that is accepted in God’s eyes. The tax collector’s prayer; which was one of humility and unworthiness. He believed in God, but he knew himself to be an unrighteous, unworthy person. He acknowledged that he was a man of many sins that was in the presence of the Holy and almighty God. This knowledge and conviction caused him to fall prostrate, beat his chest and pray earnestly to God. (Luke 18:13-14) Whereas Christ also shows us the contrasting way of prayer that people take, as being self-righteous like the Pharisee who stood, looking down at those who acknowledge their unworthiness and pray in this way, and think themselves better or more righteous than they are. Too righteous to even kneel before God (Luke 18:9-12).

In the Bible, we see our Lord Jesus teaches us to pray in an un-hypocritical fashion (Matthew 6:1, 6:5-6). St. Paul teaches us to pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17-18) and when we do not have the words to pray, the Spirit will pray on our behalf (Romans 8:26-27). St. Paul further states “ I desire therefore that the men pray everywhere, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting; in like manner also, that women adorn themselves in a modest apparel, with propriety and moderation, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly clothing, but which is proper for women professing godliness, with good works. (1 Timothy 2:8-10)

St. Paul is exhorting us all to pray in a quiet and godly manner. These verses would at face value seem to contradict Christ’s teaching of praying in secret, not to be seen by men (Matthew 6:5-6). But Christ’s warning here is about mankind’s motive for prayer, spoken in the context of praying in a hypocritical manner, not referring to congregational worship:

St. Aphrahat further explains these important verses on prayer: “But why, my beloved, did our Saviour teach and say, "Pray to your Father in secret with the door closed?". I will demonstrate you about this as much as I have understood. For he said, "Pray to your Father in secret with the door closed". But this, the word of our Lord shows us thus, "Pray in secret in your heart, and close the door". What is the door that he said to close? If not your mouth, which is (the door to) the temple in which Christ dwells as the Apostle said, "You are the temple of the Lord" (1 Cor. 3:16), for him to enter into your inner man, to this house, cleanse it from everything that is unclean, while the door, that is your mouth, is to be closed.”(Aphrahat Demonstration IV on Prayer)

Are we praying in a self-righteous manner where we think we are good enough to not stoop down and earnestly pray a pure prayer that calls out from The Spirit abiding in us? Do we think that this type of prayer is not really necessary since we have been brought into saving grace through baptism and are continually being saved and sanctified through the gracious sacraments? If we think about it, this should be the very reason we stoop down and humble ourselves all the more in thanks to God every day. That we are in fact living in His grace, and we do not deserve this awesome gift from a Holy God that He has bestowed upon us.

We will conclude with more encouraging words from St Isaac of Nineveh: Outward forms of prayer are necessary, but they should be measured in accordance with the strength of every person. Not only the old and infirm are freed from the necessity of performing many prostrations and other external actions of prayer: anyone who is exhausted from prayer is deserving of rest. One can pray standing, sitting or kneeling, in his room or while he is at work; what is more important is that prayer should be accomplished with the fear of God.3


This week’s song: The time in between – Francesca Battistelli



1.        Bishop Hilarion Alfeyev, The Spiritual World of Isaac the Syrian, Prayer in St. Isaac of Nineveh (Cistercian Publications, Kalamazoo, Michigan, 2000. P.p 3

2.       Bishop Hilarion Alfeyev, The Spiritual World of Isaac the Syrian, Prayer in St. Isaac of Nineveh (Cistercian Publications, Kalamazoo, Michigan, 2000. P.p 3


3.       Bishop Hilarion Alfeyev, The Spiritual World of Isaac the Syrian, Prayer in St. Isaac of Nineveh (Cistercian Publications, Kalamazoo, Michigan, 2000. P.p 4

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